i…………FOUND IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ITS CONTEXT?
KIRK WORRYING THAT HE OBJECTIFIES WOMEN. PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT AND REALLY SOAK THIS IN.
“But if course Kirk is [the kind of] sexist [asshole who would violate a woman’s expressly stated boundaries], he’s a womanizer.” This was my “favorite” argument against being offended by a certain scene in Star Trek Into Darkness.
News flash: you can enjoy casual sex and still respect your partners.